I know it's late but I came across another good article too. And NO my blog does and will not focus on relationships and love. There ARE other things going on in my brain....jus not right this second! LoL

50 Universal Truths About Men

1. Why should I remind you that “I love you?” I already told you once.
   
   
2. I’ll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.
   
   
3. I hate arguing with you. I’d much rather find a compromise.
   
   
4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.
   
   
5. When you speak softly, I can’t help but listen.
   
   
6. I need to be told “no” sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.
   
   
7. Please don’t ask me how you look unless you’re willing to trust my answer.
   
   
8. My eyes notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me.
   
   
9. When you’re happy with me I can’t help but want to please you.
   
   
10. If I don’t feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel less than a man.
    
    
11. I expect you to be ready when I pick you up.
    
    
12. Cigarettes make any woman look cheap and easy.
    
    
13. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me.
    
    
14. If you can’t stand up to me when I’m a brat, you’re too weak for me to open up to when I’m upset.
    
    
15. Sitting quietly next to me after you’ve made me a meal is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free ticket. You’ll be surprised how quickly I can forgive.
    
    
16. You did something hurtful. If I never bring it up, I’m considering leaving you.
    
    
17. I don’t read minds. Remember, I’m not a woman.
    
    
18. You may know fashion, but I wish you’d dress to please me, not other women.
    
    
19. If I’m losing my hair, it’s not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight?
    
    
20. When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I’ve listened to you talk about what is important to you.
    
    
21. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.
    
    
22. You look hot in a dress.
    
    
23. I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel like you're my mother.
    
    
24. If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you, but I'm less motivated.
    
    
25. During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch.

26. I need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you’re married!?

27. It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice.

28. It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge.

29. Being respected is more important to me that being loved.

30. I want every man to envy me when we arrive as a couple. Please don’t let yourself go.

31. When I’m upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important than what you say.

32. I hate it when you minimize, ignore or tell me I don’t mean my compliments. It makes me want to stop giving them.

33. I’m more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much?

34. I don’t always know how I feel. That’s why I don’t tell you.

35. I don’t need you to do things for me. What I crave is being able to please you.

36. If I do one thing and say something contradictory – go with my actions – that will always tell you what’s in my heart.

37. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something (like a favor).

38. I really don’t want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point.

39. If I don’t share what I’m thinking, it’s because I don’t think you will listen without interrupting.

40. I don’t like to argue and I don’t like to guess what’s wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.

41. I love it when you put your hair in a pony tail. Yes, it’s a Freudian thing.

42. Don’t ask me, “Are you going to wear that?” when I’m already dressed.

43. A gentleman should always be respected by his lady in public, even if she is disagreeing with him.

44. If you don’t believe you’re pretty, you won’t believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it.

45. It isn’t how much you weigh, it’s that your body is proportionate, which is so attractive.

46. Sometimes I have weird, strange or very sexual thoughts. I don’t take them seriously and I don’t want to share them with you (or anyone).

47. Sometimes you really don’t want to know what I’m thinking. See above.

48. If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it.

49. I don’t remember everything about our relationship but that doesn’t mean I don’t love you.

50. I need some time to myself to calm down when I’m upset so that I don’t say something I will regret.

Useful? Borring? A lie? Let me know!
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10 Things Men and Women Do that Destroy Relationships

Ook I was on bossip.com and saw this article, thought I'd post it here. Kinda useful!

Everyone is always talking about what people lack in relationships and why they don’t last, but what about the things people do consistently that destroy relationships. We found a list that gives 10 reasons that men and women will walk away and it does NOT include cheating.

Pop the Top and See if You Agree…

Top 5 Things Men Do that Destroy Relationships:

1. Not Answering the Phone:

When a man doesn’t answer the phone, especially at certain times of the day, it causes suspicion in a woman’s mind.

2. Walk Your Talk:

If a man says he is going to do something, then he needs to make sure that he does it. Don’t give empty promises.

3. Learn to say “I Don’t Know”:

When it comes to a man’s ego, they can’t stand to say “I DON’T KNOW!!!” Women can’t stand when a man thinks he knows EVERYTHING!!! It’s okay to “google it” if you don’t know.

4. Hogging the Remote:

When a man just takes complete control over the TV, it’s a simple sign that a man is not interested in the things that his woman likes. Watching sports is cool but not 24\7.

5. Bringing Up Weight:

A woman doesn’t need her man to constantly remind her that she needs to hit the gym. A woman realizes that she has gained a few pounds when the 1st pound hits. Also by a man always bringing up a woman’s weight, it makes it seem that all he cares about is the way she looks and not what she has to offer.

Top 5 Things Women Do to Destroy Relationships:

1. The “WHERE ARE YOU” question:

When a woman calls a man and the first thing she ask him is “WHERE ARE YOU???” That is annoying. If the woman is asking for a specific reason then that’s understandable but to ask a man who all the time shows that a woman doesn’t trust her man when he’s not with her.

2. The “Who You Talking To” question:

When a man is on the phone and this question is asked, men find this to be very rude. Asking this question co-insides with the above question, it shows that a woman doesn’t trust her man and makes a woman appear to be nosy.

3. Nagging:

When a woman starts nagging about nothing. If a man hasn’t done what you want him to do and you nag him about it, it’s really not going to get done once a woman starts nagging.

4. Holding a Grudge:

When a woman holds a grudge and then tries to bring up all the old stuff in a new argument, that drives a man crazy and makes him non-responsive.

5. Allowing a Man Time to Breathe:

Men need time by themselves, to be with friends and family. Men need to feel independent. When a woman doesn’t give a man time to himself then he feels suffocated.

DISCUSS…